If you are still reading this extended blog, congratulations! I know how strange much of this blog must seem to those who have not made a study of the MIND of Man, and how it works? I know this because I have been studying the Esoteric parts of the Whole Human Being for a very long time. That is, the Whole of Man includes four separate dimensions, each with its own separate reality — composed of a range of vibrations confined to that dimension. And what most people are confined to is the physical reality, which includes the physical body, the brain, one’s physical senses, and the physical dimension of Creation.
This sketch: Illustrates the Whole of Man. And, as I said, most people are confined to #4, which is the physical part of Man. This is what modern mental health is confined to, and this is all that we are taught by those who are trained in “BS&bp“[ Behavioral Science and the oxymoron ‘behavioral psychology’]. When a baby is born, what we “see” is the physical form of the baby. And we also see a child whose brain and physical senses are not fully functional as yet. And we “assume” that this means the whole of that child is also “not functional as yet”. But, in assuming this, we are quite mistaken!
Three-quarters of the child are fully functional. The Spiritual Dimension of the child, the Soul, and the MIND of the child are all fully functional. This means that the child is fully aware of everything that is taking place in its environment, except that the child cannot see, hear, nor feel everything that is taking place. But emotionally, and psychologically, the child is fully aware of everything that is taking place.
What is the reason “science” does not tell us this? Because the vast majority of those in science are quite unaware of what I just shared with you. Most people who are naturally drawn to “science” are confined to the Left-Hemisphere of the brain, which that person’s MIND feeds Delusional Thinking that convinces that person that what he or she thinks… is all there is to KNOW.
You see… Life, that is, Capital “L” Life, consists of four separate dimensions, and each dimension has its own vibrational energy range. So, the human being mirrors the construction and composition of Existence… almost in reverse order. That is, the relative size of the Physical Universe is quite small in comparison to the Astral Region of Creation. And the Astral Region is small in comparison to the Causal Region of Creation. And the size of the Spiritual Dimension is unknown, but it is truly VAST!
This illustration shows us relativity, but not actual sizes. We do not even know the size of the Physical Universe, for heaven’s sake! But what Mystics tell us is that this is the composition of Life, and that we human beings mirror Reality. I believe the saying is: “As above, so below”. And below means the physical plane of existence… which is the ONLY place the physical body and brain operate. No part of the physical exists beyond the physical plane. When one dies, what moves on is one’s MIND and Soul. And only the Soul is immortal.
Now, re-think what you are looking at when you look at a baby. Think of the baby like you would think of the seed of a giant Oak Tree. A baby is potential bound up in a form that will continue to “change” until that form dies. And let us re-visit the term “Reality” for a moment. What is Real [or should be thought of as Real] is also Permanent, absolute, and unchanging. What on this physical plane can you point to that “fits” this description of Real? Again, the only part of Man that is Real, is the Soul, which is an aspect of God.
So, if you are a parent, and you have a child, what you see is the physical body of the child, and three-quarters of who and what that child is, are invisible to you. And, depending upon how much “C’etc” your Soul has acquired, you may be able to Empathetically Understand or communicate with your child, who is [depending upon its own level of Enlightenment] fully capable of doing so. The MIND of the child, and the Consciousness of the child are both scanning the environment and picking up what is needed by that child to fulfill the Fate Karma the Soul of that child designed for this lifetime. All of his is automatic, constant, and cannot be altered. What parents provide is an involuntary resource for the MIND of the child to use as it forms both the personality and the psychology of the child for this lifetime.
What then does the parent do? The parent “reinforces” what the MIND of the child automatically gleans from the MIND of each parent. For better or for worse, and this is automatic. If the parent is fearful, that is what the MIND of the child uses to form the psychology of the child. If the Soul of the parent has acquired a high level of Spirituality [which naturally includes a high level of Acceptance], then the child’s Soul will use that to dampen the negativity of the MIND of the child. And this will automatically provide that child a higher level of Acceptance, which equates to a loving disposition.
On the other hand, if the MIND of the parent holds a substantial amount of fear, this fear will be used by the MIND of the child to reinforce any fear repressed within the MIND of the child. And this will impact the personality of the child.
And…it is very important for all parents to realize that none of this should be taken as accusatory or as blame… since only that which supports the Fate Karma of the child will be taken-in by the child’s MIND… based entirely on the Fate Karma of the child. Again… the Law of Karma is very precise. Nothing a person does not deserve is ever faced by that person. It is important for every parent to be aware of this fact, and to keep it in one’s thoughts, always!
Finally, the most beneficial element a parent can give a child is Love. That is, unconditional Acceptance. But this does not mean any lack of discipline. Or overlooking actions which are prompted by evil, or meanness, or a lack of self-respect, or respect for others a child’s MIND might cause a child to engage in. The primary role of a parent is to always seek to look far ahead of where the child is currently, and to anticipate what negative indicators of a future evil disposition can be curbed by Love and concern for the child today!
A child is most fortunate if its parent or parents are as Conscious as they can be, and if they are not particularly Conscious, then hopefully each parent would make an effort to discover negative elements hidden within the MIND of the parent by seeking a really loving and competent Gestalt Psychotherapist. Or short of this, each parent might practice being quite honest in helping each other address those negative habits which will negatively impact their child.
Mostly, a wise parent will literally use the Love of a child to awaken the Love within the Soul of that parent. And for goodness sake, be cautious to not allow your MIND to misinterpret the need of your child for Love.. as an invitation to think of sex. Which your MIND will almost always do. The MIND is not the Soul, and it cannot be expected to confine itself to honorable thoughts.
Remain in your heart… which means, be as a child yourself as you remain open to the Love of your child. Innocent and open Love, is pure Acceptance of the Soul of another. This is what Christ meant when he said: “Love one another”.
I hope the lengthy and very involved blog will be helpful to parents. Being a parent is an awesome responsibility… however, if one remembers that 90% of what a child needs is Love, then the role becomes much easier to fulfill.
Peace, 1-Brother James